Mills & Syd

Mills & Syd

Friday, March 21, 2014

10 Months Old

Syd is in the double digits now...10 months old!

one week old:
one month old:
two months old:
three months old:
four months old:
five months old:
six months old:
seven months old:
eight months old:
nine months old:
ten months old:
when I try to make her laugh, I don't always pay attention to keeping the camera straight ;)
our pretty girl
wish this one wasn't blurry...gummy grin
EAT:
Still nursing approximately every 4 hours; usually 5 times a day.  That 5th time is anywhere between 2 and 5am, it never seems to be at the same time.  Then she goes back to sleep until around 7, or sometimes earlier when Millie wakes her up.  I know I should try to get rid of that 5th feeding in the middle of the night...she doesn't need it.  But goodness, she is the stubborn one....our little Taurus.  My goal is to have that 5th feeding gone by her 11 month post. ;)  I am so pleased that I've been able to nurse her this long.  I never had a specific length of time in mind because after my experience with Millie and her biting, I knew I would need to be flexible.  Since Syd has exactly zero teeth, it has been such an easy road....and I plan to do it as long as I need to.  Hopefully, we can transition her straight from breastfeeding to whole milk after her first birthday.  I really want to avoid the formula bottles with this one.

One of her bouts of stubbornness is showing with the sippy cup.  She took it great for a couple of weeks with her pear juice, then she decided she was done with it one day and hasn't taken a drink since.  I've tried changing up the sippy cups and still no luck, she pushes it away.  However, I still always put a sippy cup full of water at every meal, I can only assume that one day she'll be thirsty enough to take a drink.  I've moved her probiotics to her morning bowl of oatmeal and fruit puree, which has worked out well because she eats every last drop.

New this month is finger foods!  She very daintily picks up a piece of food with thumb and forefinger...and then shoves her entire hand in her mouth.  Such a lady.  She loves puffs and cooked pieces of carrots and peas.  She's also had some mushy pear and apple bits, and (surprise!) some avocado.  She still makes a strange face with the avocado, but at least it's not coming back out.  
SLEEP:
Nighttime sleep still the same as last month...still getting up once a night for a quick bite.  She's definitely down to only 2 naps a day now: morning nap around 9am and afternoon nap around 1pm.  This usually works out okay as long as she takes at least a 2 hour nap in the afternoon.  If she wakes up earlier than 3pm, then getting her to wait until 7pm bedtime is tricky.  I've had to curtail some of Millie's morning activities though because Syd won't always nap in the Ergo carrier anymore.  And if she does, it isn't a good nap for her...so I've tried making sure I'm home for morning nap time the majority of the week.  This has really put a wrench in my plans for those precious MDO days. :)  She's great at being flexible though and isn't really the meltdown type of baby at all, so it doesn't give me anxiety to take her some place during nap time like it used to (still does) with Mills.
PLAY:
The biggest milestone this month was Syd becoming a walker, but I guess she's decided to hold off on that for awhile.  She walked quite a bit for about 3 days, then I think she got tired of the falls because she doesn't walk much anymore...certainly not unless we stand her up and have her walk to either of us.  She prefers to cruise around and crawl, and she's so fast at both!  There is no limit to her cruising around, she goes from fireplace to door to wall to activity table to couch and all back again.  But even if it would only take her a couple of steps without holding on to something to get to her destination, she's now choosing to get down and crawl.  She really is laid back about the whole thing.  Funny to remember when Millie took her first steps and how she never looked back...she was a walker from that point on.  At least Syd can say that she walked at the same exact point as Mills: 9 3/4 mos old..neither one gets the bragging rights ;)

Syd has also started dancing this month, which is crazy adorable.  She won't do it on command, she just does it on her own when there is a song with a good beat playing.  I've noticed that she seems to do it the most to Pharrell's Happy song, so that has been on quite a bit at our house lately.  She has a jerky head bob thing going on.  I hope to get some video of it soon.

Other things she enjoys: 
She gets the biggest smile on her face when I sit down to read to her.  We've had a slow start with reading because for the longest time, she wouldn't quit trying to eat the books.  She also loves to swing at the park.  She loves anything to do with Millie, and she'll happily play alongside Millie almost anywhere in the house.  She really loves bath time with Millie and playing in the big tub.  She's discovered that the play tunnel can be fun, and she really enjoys clearing all of the play food off the shelves of Millie's little fridge.  We are always amazed at how long she can entertain herself.  She does the funniest thing that my explanation won't do justice to its cuteness: whenever she's standing at something (fireplace, bench, etc.) and someone comes towards her while talking to her, she starts stamping her feet and doing a little jig while squealing...she's sooo excited that someone is coming to play with her.
Things she does NOT enjoy:
getting lotion-ed and dressed after bath time, having her face wiped after meals, diaper changes, not being allowed to eat if others are eating
She weighs around 19 lbs, wears size 9-12 mos clothes, size 3 shoes, and size 3 diapers.  Her small patches of eczema have cleared up since the cold weather has gone away.  This month there has been a ton of spit up, which is confusing.  She's never been a big spitter-upper, and I thought I had it pegged to occurring only if I had cheese or too much dairy.  This month though, I'm not sure what is going on, but nothing I do seems to make it better or worse.  It's just become a part of life now...so weird since we've never had to deal with it much before.
tiny strawberry birthmark on her left side of abdomen

Dear Syd Pid,
This month you've really found your voice and are constantly babbling, screeching, talking, laughing, and making all sorts of sounds.  And all of those sounds are so LOUD!  You love to jabber away to me when you've finished nursing...something I want to remember forever, such special moments between you and me.  I treasure the small amount of time you let me hold and snuggle you these days, you'd much rather be down and getting into something.  However, it's different if daddy picks you up; you actually let him hold you and walk you around.  You've learned to speak up and let it be known when you don't like something or need a change of scenery; you're especially quick to pitch little fits in the car seat by letting out some ear piercing shrieks.  They don't last long, and it makes us laugh most of the time because it's obvious you are just testing out those lungs to see what they can get you.  I have a feeling you're going to get what you want a lot in the upcoming years...you're smart about being an angel most of the time until you really want something.  It shocks us so much, we're quick to give in.  We love you little miss smartypants...sweet, beautiful baby of mine, you are loved way more than you'll ever know.

Wednesday, March 19, 2014

A Quick Visit from The Girls

Saturday morning, Tricia brought her four girls out to visit us!  It was so sweet of her to drive all this way, and Millie had a blast hanging out with the big girls.

Jocelynn, Millie, Maya, Hillery, Sydney, Sheridan 
Hope you're comfy, Mills?
We made Grandma Tricia an early birthday cake, and Millie added a "few" extra sprinkles ;)
Hillery was on Syd duty, which means keeping her from eating leaves and grass...harder than it sounds
Mills had fun doing chalk body outlines





Hugs before nap time...Thanks for coming to see us!

Monday, March 17, 2014

Millie 2 2/3 Years Old

Time for another Millie Bear update.  However, I just went back to read her 2 1/3 update in November and really not much has changed, as far as her likes and dislikes go.  What HAS really changed is her talking, which is so fast now that it's hard to keep up with what all she is trying to tell us. ;)  I've quit writing down the funny things she says because there are just too many every single day.
updates/additions to Millie's likes:

  • Chase is still her favorite game, but we've been working on hide-n-seek some too.  She likes the counting part, but she's terrible at the hiding part.  She wants to do the counting every time.
  • Still singing her heart out, and Twinkle Twinkle is still the default song of choice.  Now though, she's really getting into some songs from school: This Little Light of Mine and I May Never March in the Infantry seem to be her two school favorites.  We always have music playing during nighttime naked time; The Okee Dokee Brothers is the current fav and it's cute to hear her sing along to it.
  • Dancing has really amped up.  She likes to "whip her hair" to Willow's song of the same name.  Recently, us three girls have been boogying to Pharrell's Happy song.  Yes, Syd too.
  • New food loves: we are finally able to give her dairy without restriction (but we can still tell if she has too much), so mac-n-cheese and pizza have become quick favorites.  She likes the "baby pizzas" where I make them with biscuits.  And although it isn't dairy related, she loves brown rice.  She'd like nothing better than a big bowl of brown rice with veggies for dinner...no meat, please.  
  • Blankie/Owl isn't new, but Owl is apparently losing his luster and Blankie is the clear favorite.  She loves touching the silky lining and rubbing it on her face.  Now she makes us roll him up into a taco shape where none of the other fabric is showing and only the silky part is on the outside.  Blankie/Owl aren't allowed to leave the house though, so it's only for bedtime or when she is extra tired and whiny.
  • This Winter has seemed so long; we all miss the park and walks and water play out back.  Unfortunately in the absence of these things, I've allowed her to watch a bit too much TV.  She still loves Curious George and Little Bear, but she's had a different favorite movie just about every week.  Winnie the Pooh, Monsters, Inc. and Monsters University are old news.  She's since moved on to Finding Nemo (she loves Dory), then The Care Bears Movie (which is too scary for her), then The Lion King ("where'd 'Fasa go??"), then the Jungle Book (so old that the graphics are awful), then Toy Story 2 (yayyyy, it's Jessie and Bullseye!), arriving at her current favorite of Toy Story 3 (it has both Jessie AND a huge purple stuffed teddy bear).  Some days, she'll watch the whole thing, but most of the time she's up and playing during the movie too.  Looking forward to shelving these until next Winter (where they will be guaranteed to help save my sanity, once again).
  • Kitty hunting is all the rage.  We have 3 outside kitties that live just down the road and she loves to go on a kitty hunt.  Thankfully, one of them (Dewayne) is very friendly and lets Mills pet and play.

  • She loves being a big sister.  It's finally registering that she gets to do some things that Syd can't...like chew food ("babies don't have teeth!") or go to school ("it's not for mommies or daddies or babies").  I'm so proud of the way Millie interacts with Syd 90% of the time.  She likes to play with her and read to her and feed her...and she gives such enthusiastic hugs that Syd usually ends up crying and on the ground.  There are plenty of moments where she steals Syd's toys or gets a bit needy with my attention, but it's really surprised me how well Millie has adjusted.  I always say how lucky we are that Syd is so laid back, but we are just as lucky that Millie has such a loving little heart. 

updates/additions to Millie's dislikes:
  • Cayden moving so far away
  • I've created a little monster with the picture taking...I started offering treats if she would smile.  Now she thinks she gets a treat every time.  She really loves smarties candy.
  • wearing clothes...she's constantly disrobing or asking us to help her take off her clothes
  • letting other little kids look at or touch Syd
  • playing dress-up
  • sharing and taking turns

 Millie says:

  • she pronounces veggie chips as "guppie chips"
  • the other day, she wanted me to open a package and told me to go get a "sharp".  I guess this is what she calls either knives or scissors because I'm always saying to "be careful, it's sharp!".  To be clear, I don't let her play with knives or scissors...
  • she likes to look at our gum...in our mouth.  and she calls it "grum", as in "let me see your grum, daddy".
  • Aunt Kathy gave her a little cash register that she loves playing with, especially the coins.  she's constantly looking for her "poins".
  • instead of "car wash", she calls it the "wash car" (which she still hates, by the way)
  • when we get Syd out of her bed, Millie always says "didja have a good nap, syd?"
  • Millie loves to ask "whazzis?"...which is actually "what's this?" but she says it so fast and it is one word with a random 'z' sound thrown in.  Even when she knows what something is, she still often asks; we usually have to end up turning the question back around to her to break the cycle.
  • I've overheard her telling Syd: "not so fast, Syd" 
  • her go-to pretend strategy either involves counting and telling someone to sit in timeout (or if they're really in trouble, they get a swat) OR pouring you a cup of coffee and telling you it's hot.  also, baking cookies or bday cake in her kitchen are other favorite pretend scenarios
  • she loves to use my own words against me: "just a minute, i'm busy"; "i'm not kidding"; "i'm not playing this game".
  • we've done a pretty good job of cleaning up our mouths in front of Mills these past few months, but apparently she hasn't forgotten.  last week when she spilled something, I let out a groan.  she said "heyyyy, don't say that word!".  I told her it wasn't a bad word, and she asked "not like God Damnit?".  uhhhh, nope.  sigh.  love this kid!

This Friday, we embark on the potty training journey, since next week is her Spring Break.  Wish us luck!


Monday, March 10, 2014

Syd: Certified Walker (this is not a Walking Dead reference)

BIG NEWS FOR SYD PID: she's officially walking now!
This weekend she just took off (and took me by surprise!): Syd's first time walking (more than just 3 or 4 steps)  Millie is her biggest cheerleader!

Am I the only one that thinks of the Walking Dead TV show when we refer to her as a "walker"? :)  Actually, JKK's nickname for her has been "Biter" for quite awhile because she makes A LOT of zombie-like sounds.
spit bubbles

Warmer temps and longer days....ahhhh, soooo much better.  We actually played outside this afternoon!
And we had the windows open in the sunroom this evening.  Sunshine makes everything better.  Except Syd's eczema (which you can see all on her back).  I was in denial for the past few weeks thinking she just had dry skin, but now it is red and patchy.  Doesn't seem to bother her, but I am trying to get it cleared up quickly before it gets really bad.
switching things up with nighttime naked time kitchen play
Other random pics:
big girls playing nicely together
If you sit on the floor, she'll come crawl all over you.  I love it.
Comfy?  Looks like it.
I've passed my bad habit of eating chocolate almond butter (or sometimes nutella...oh, the shame spiral!) straight from the jar.
Pretty sure she'll need Botox some day ;)

Monday, March 3, 2014

Snow Days in March

We've been snowed in...again.  I'm not even angry about it, just resigned.  I'm destined to be stuck in this house with these kids...FOREVER.  The worst thing about being snowed in: Cayden no longer lives in our neighborhood.  We have no one to play with, and that includes me. ;)  Hurry up Springtime!

I won't be able to do these double airplane rides for much longer...
...they're getting a bit heavy :)
Today, I broke out the tunnel to spice it up a bit, but I couldn't get Syd to go through it.
We also baked cookies today!  Millie is turning into such a great helper (and spoon licker)
This is what our Sunday snow day looked like.  These pics crack me up.  Daddy's such a good sport.
Can't keep clothes on Millie these days!
She's not okay with clothes, but for some reason, accessories she can handle.
Mills is going through a strange time at Little Gym.  The past month she hasn't really been into it and asks to leave throughout the class.  She usually is wearing this lovely look on her face and won't mind the teacher...and we usually end up heading out early.  Maybe she's outgrowing it.  Sad.
Syd is everywhere, all the time now.  I keep thinking I should put up the baby gate corral, but I'm lazy and don't want to hear Millie whine about being lifted in and out of it.  Thus, I've been trying to hold off at least until she's really walking.
Puffs!  She digs them, for sure.
Last week, Millie learned about the sun and moon and stars...this is an interesting interpretation.
This is one of my favorites, and she really likes it too.  I said "oh, how cool, it's the sun and moon and stars", and she said "yeah! and clouds!!".
For documentation sake - this is Millie's school lunch almost every Monday and Thursday this year.  She really likes her turkey lunchmeat rolled up and she calls them "turkey tacos".  Other items: cheese stick, celery, orange bell peppers, cucumbers, Kashi crackers, grapes, whole milk (which she doesn't drink at school but is sent because it is a requirement), and water.  Most of the time, she eats almost all of it...sometimes, she leaves the cheese stick or turkey, but never the veggies or grapes.
Time for a Millie flashback!  Remember when Millie would pat her belly when she was around 9 mos old?  Like this...

Syd's been doing it too, and it makes me smile every time :)  This is a short video I posted on Instagram, so I'll just go ahead and upload it to the blog:


Here are other recent videos that I have posted to YouTube:
1) Since I brought up Millie flashbacks, I need to share this video JKK found on his phone recently.  Millie is 18 mos old here and not really talking much yet.  When he sent this to me the other day, I watched it like five times in a row.  I can't believe this was Millie in February 2013.  Crazy how much difference a year makes.  Ohhhh, isn't she sweet?? sweet baby millie

2) Then fast forward to Millie these days...hahaha, we crack up when she says "whatchu want?!" millie's flower cake

3) Nighttime naked time horsey rides: syd rides millie

4) More of Millie's amazing vocals with an Arkansas accent: millie sings thumbkin